Have you ever wondered of an alternative to express your emotions,
feeling of anger or depression will lessen or even be diminished once
you have an alternative to that problem? Try shop therapy. With shop
therapy you will really forget your issues in life because you will get
the feeling of being fulfilled once you have purchased the green wallet
with the brand that you loved. Shop therapy is not only for people that
are wealthy but shop therapy could be applied as well by the people who
do not have much money to spend because we could still buy the things
that we want we just have to look for a store which offers a big
discount. In shop therapy, you will have the chance to talk with
different kinds of people and those persons are the salespersons. How
would you feel if you woke up on the wrong side of the bed? You think
you are so pissed right but sometimes without apparent reason. How
would you feel if you are on that situation and you step inside the
mall and be greeted with the most lovely smile you ever saw that day
and asked you, “How can I assist you?”. Isn’t it a wonderful feeling
that somebody cares about you?
According to author Paco Underhill, shop therapy is being utilized to
make someone feel and look good by obtaining things from health
products, skin care and beauty items. Its alternative name is comfort
buys. Shop therapy is a unique approach of some people to change their
moods. Impulsive buying is not the same with shop therapy for the
reason that the latter is more common to people undergoing a period of
misery or transition in their lives. Shop therapy is affirmation of
self-esteem according to The Women’s Center director Judith Mueller.
In another study, shop therapy is proven by a team of researchers who
represented Stanford, Harvard, University of Pittsburgh and Carnegie
Mellon. The topic laid an emphasis on impact of temporal depression on
a person’s spending habits. The scientific investigators figured out
that sadness triggers ego centrism. Then self-centered viewpoint would
increase the possibility of unusual expending money so as to look and
feel pleasant and happy. The study employed 33 volunteers wherein they
were split into two. The first group was given a depressing video to
watch while the other group was given an ordinary video showing no
extreme emotions of happiness or depression. Afterwards, both groups
were offered with a water bottle and both groups were questioned on the
amount they would give to buy the water bottle. Results presented that
those who watched and were moved by the distressing video said they are
willing to purchase the item more than four times the other groups
offered. The conclusion drawn here is that they generalized that having
low spirits produced self-absorbed view. An egotistical thinking
increases the tendency to use and spend money as a form of tool, than
any other regular consumer, to alter the feeling of being depressed
into being happy.
Hence, shopping provides a therapeutic experience in this sense as it
tends to lift up one’s spirit. That is probably why a lot of women
indulge in it. Having shop therapy in your life help you feel relaxed
and gain a sense of joy after you have purchased the merchandise that
you desire. It does not matter how much you spend, because you deserve
it after all. You’ve worked so hard and it is just your right to please
yourself and pamper your feelings; it is not a sign of being
incapacitated on how to dwell on your life’s issues rather it is merely
giving yourself a time to be pleased and happy. Understanding why and
how shop therapy works make us feel less guilty to shop because we are
merely responding to our inner need to feel happy.
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